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vendredi 20 novembre 2009

The Importance Of Time With Your Family For Working Mums

By Marianne Frigula

For anyone who is a working parent, or even if you aren't working but are still a parent, we all understand the difficulty of managing time with our family with our other responsibilities. This is particularly true when it comes to a working mother or father working a regular job, working from home or having to work on a fly in fly out basis or any other type of work.

Our family is made up of one parent (my husband) who works one week one then one off on a fly in fly out roster. Then I, a stay at home mother, also run a home business of my own which consumes quite a bit of my time. It is difficult enough to spend quality time with either my children or my husban, particularly when my husband is a way, as things become a lot more reliant on me to run the household.

To be honest, sometimes both of us actually have to put down whatever it is that our project is at the time and make time for each other and the kids to all spend together doing something as a family. It's not always easy either, when we feel whatever it is we have had to put down needs our urgent attention. However, we always enjoy our time away from our work to enjoy time with the kids doing something they really enjoy.

If there is any advice I can offer to anyone in a remotely similar situation, it is make sure you have time designated for work and time for family or partners as well. People need our time as much or more than our business at hand. Spend weekends only doing family activities if possible and save the weekdays for work. Have time at the end or beginning of the work day for some time with your partner and or children.

No matter what your situation is, try to keep or get back a balance of career and family, because some of us really can't have one without the other but have trouble doing both. Children especially need us a lot as they are growing up and our partners don't wish to be forgotten either! It really doesn't take any extraordinary effort to get a balance, just a bit of thought and planning and consideration of others. Think about it.

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